Meet Mr. & Mrs. Jones #couples
- LME Media Team
- 1 day ago
- 8 min read
Current City: Atlanta GA
Tell our audience about you
Hi, I’m Brii Jones, a neuroscience major with a psychology minor in Atlanta. I’m passionate about understanding the brain and mental health, driven by personal experiences that have shaped my perspective.
I’m married to a wonderful husband, and we have six amazing children. Outside of academics, I enjoy going to the gym, reading self-help books, and tending to my garden alongside my husband. I’m also interested in research on how chemicals affect brain development. I’m excited to continue learning and using my knowledge to help others live healthier lives.
How did you meet, and what attracted you to each other?
We met online and quickly swapped numbers, as neither of us was very responsive on the platform. Initially, our conversations were sparse, so he gave me some space. A few months later, he reached out again, and we decided to meet in person. From that moment, we were inseparable. While his looks initially drew me in, it was his intelligence that truly captivated me. Our shared values and life goals deepened our connection, making it all the more meaningful.
What does love look like in your relationship?
Love in our relationship looks like supporting each other’s individuality and not expecting the other person to be responsible for our happiness. It’s about making sacrifices for each other—not by putting the other person first all the time, but by prioritizing them when it matters. It’s about being willing to do things for one another, even when we don’t feel like it, because we understand the importance of our bond.
How do you express love and affection in your daily lives?
We express love and affection in simple, meaningful ways—whether it’s through small gestures like holding hands, sharing a look that says everything, or verbal affirmations. We also show affection by prioritizing quality time together, even in the midst of busy schedules. It’s not always about grand displays; sometimes it’s just in the way we listen to each other, offer a comforting hug, or do something thoughtful for one another. It’s these little acts that keep the love strong and the connection deep.
How do you balance time together and time apart?
Balancing time can be tricky since we’re always on the go, but we make Tuesdays our dedicated day off together—our date night. Sometimes, it’s just the two of us, and other times it turns into a family day. Throughout the week, we find small ways to connect, whether it’s watching a movie, taking a walk to a local restaurant, or just sharing a quiet moment. Even with busy schedules, we prioritize these little moments to stay connected.
What role does intimacy play in your relationship?
Intimacy in our relationship goes beyond just physical connection. It’s about emotional closeness, trust, and vulnerability. It plays a crucial role in helping us feel understood and supported. Whether through shared moments of affection, deep conversations, or simply being there for each other, intimacy strengthens our bond and keeps us connected on a deeper level. It’s essential for building trust and ensuring we both feel valued and loved. With six kids, including two toddlers who require a lot of our attention, intimacy has been a challenge but not impossible.
How do you maintain a strong emotional connection?
We maintain a strong emotional connection through open communication and by making an effort to set aside our own biases when listening to each other. It’s about truly hearing what the other person is saying without jumping to conclusions or letting our personal perspective get in the way. This helps us stay connected emotionally and ensures we understand each other’s feelings and needs. This is easier said than done.
How do you handle disagreements or conflicts?
When it comes to disagreements and conflicts, we usually take the time to sit down and talk things through. I’m not a fan of the idea that you always have to compromise, because that doesn’t always work or make sense in every situation and can sometimes leave both people feeling unhappy. For us, maintaining a healthy relationship means setting clear boundaries. If we disagree, we don’t move forward until we reach an agreement—sometimes that takes months, haha. We focus on communicating until one of us pursues the other, and we’ve worked on healthy communication skills to ensure we don’t make each other feel defensive.
How do you approach discussing difficult topics with each other?
We approach difficult conversations with openness and respect. We make sure to listen to each other without judgment and try to understand where the other person is coming from. It’s important to stay calm and patient, even when the topic is tough. We also work to communicate our feelings honestly, but in a way that doesn’t put the other person on the defensive. Taking the time to really talk things through, rather than rushing to resolve them, helps us reach a better understanding and keep our connection strong. Sometimes we have to walk away from the conversation and try again later.
How important is physical intimacy to your overall relationship satisfaction?
Right now, physical intimacy isn’t as important because of everything we have going on with the little ones. It can be difficult at times, but we understand that it’s something we need to work on. We’ve agreed to be patient with each other and give ourselves grace during this busy season, knowing that our connection is about more than just physical closeness.
What are your thoughts on keeping the romance alive?
From a scientific perspective, I’d say that women often seek novelty to keep romance alive, while men may be more focused on consistency or familiarity. Women tend to benefit from creating new experiences—whether that’s through exploring different activities or embracing new roles. This doesn’t always have to be sexual; it could be anything that adds excitement to the relationship. It could also involve activities that build self-esteem, which can be done individually. Keeping things fresh and exciting in a relationship is about finding ways to continuously engage and challenge each other while also growing as individuals.
How do you navigate differences in sexual preferences?
We haven’t really had to navigate different sexual preferences, as we’ve been fortunate to be on the same page in that regard. However, if it ever were to come up, I believe it would be important to approach it with open communication and understanding. Creating a space where we can both express our desires, boundaries, and comfort levels freely would be key to ensuring that we stay connected and respectful of each other’s needs.
How do you handle changes in your sexual relationship over time?
We handle these changes by being patient and understanding with each other. We acknowledge that life with young children can shift priorities, and while physical intimacy might not always be at the forefront, we focus on keeping our emotional connection strong. We communicate openly about our needs and make time for closeness in whatever way we can. We’re both committed to working through these changes together, knowing that intimacy can evolve and that our relationship is about more than just physical closeness.
How do you support each other’s individual growth?
We support each other’s individual growth by encouraging each other to pursue our passions and goals, even if they’re different from one another. We create space for each person to grow independently while also offering support and motivation when needed. Whether it’s through having open conversations about our aspirations or giving each other the time and resources to focus on personal development, we make sure to celebrate each other’s progress and provide a foundation for growth, both individually and as a couple.
What is your favorite memory together?
Our favorite memory would probably be the moment we first met in person. There was something so natural about the way we connected—it felt like we had known each other for much longer. We both remember the spark of excitement and the ease of conversation, which marked the beginning of something special. It’s a memory that reminds us of how far we’ve come and how much our bond has deepened since that day.
What do you appreciate most about your partner?
What I appreciate most about my partner is how easy he makes it to love him. He allows me to be comfortable and never makes me feel pressured to look perfect all the time—he still shows me I’m beautiful, even on my toughest days. I don’t have to worry about having the house spotless, and he never judges me. After having babies, he gives me the space to take my time, and I don’t feel the need to lose weight for him, but for myself. I also love how he protects and provides for our family—he’s truly the greatest father I’ve ever seen. He’s always ready to do whatever is needed when it comes to our kids, and the work is never all on me.
What challenges have you faced as a couple, and how did you overcome them?
The biggest challenge we’ve faced has been me pursuing my PhD in neuroscience while relying on him for financial support. He was fully committed to supporting my dream, but at first, I felt selfish for asking him to shoulder that burden. This is my dream, and honestly, I wanted it more than anything—even more than my marriage at times. I know that sounds harsh, but I had to be honest with myself and with him. I didn’t want to put him through such a difficult situation, and I understood if he couldn’t do it because I knew how hard it would be. He doesn’t have the same passion I do, but he’s always been willing to do whatever it takes, and his purpose has always been to be a great husband and father.
What are your shared goals as a couple?
Our shared goal is to provide a piece of land for our children, ensuring they always have a place to call home as they navigate their own journeys. We want to be their unwavering support so they can seize every opportunity without worrying about stability, knowing they have a foundation to return to whenever they need it.
How do you celebrate each other’s successes?
We celebrate each other’s successes with small parties or special trips. For instance, since I’m nearing the finish line of earning my associate’s degree, we recently took a mini vacation to Universal Studios. We stayed at one of the hotels in the park, which has been on my bucket list for a while. It was a great way to mark a significant achievement and create lasting memories together.
What do you think is the secret to a lasting relationship?
The secret to a lasting relationship is individuality. He’s first and foremost my friend, someone I care deeply about. So when he’s going through something, I try not to take it personally, even though sometimes I do feel hurt by his actions. We haven’t faced anything major yet, so I’m not sure how I’d handle it until it happens. But I would hope to be supportive because his struggles will affect him, and he’ll still need my support to get through them. It’s about understanding and standing by each other through everything.
What advice would you give to couples just starting their journey together?
I would advise other couples to prioritize communication and patience. Understand that challenges will come, but it’s important to keep talking and listen to each other’s needs. Don’t rush through the tough times—take them as opportunities to grow together. Also, make space for individuality and personal growth while supporting each other’s dreams. Always show appreciation, even for the small things, and be ready to adapt as life changes. Most importantly, keep your friendship at the core of your relationship.
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